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Prenuptial agreements are traditionally drawn up to protect parties in the case the marriage fails and they need to divide their assets. But according to Michelle Andrews, over at U.S. News & World Report, lawyers are increasingly seeing prenups that include clauses related to health.

Some potential spouses want to be assured their betrothed won’t gain weight or pick up smoking. Others want a guarantee on how many times a week they’ll have sex or, in one case, put a weight restriction on physical intimacy. Of course, these clauses aren’t legally enforceable, but I suppose if your fiance asks you to agree to them, then you know up front exactly what you’re getting into.

We all want our spouses and partners to take good care of themselves. But putting healthy habits on a legal contract? That feels controlling and manipulative to me, not emotions you want to feel when you’re saying “I do, till death to us part.” I’d have run, far and fast, if my husband had approached me with one of these.

What about you? Are you willing to put your health requirements on paper? Or does this give you the same icky feeling it does me?